Attract Soul Mate with Higher Vibrations
Love is who you are in your most natural self. You are a high vibration being, that has been conditioned from your childhood. While undergoing this conditioning and programming (the person(s) who has conditioned you was also conditioned), you learn to protect yourself. You create a protection survival layer called the ego to avoid getting in touch with darkness (the conditioning). Attract soul mate with higher vibrations by shining your light. However, how can the Sun, shine its love, when it is surrounded by dark clouds of this world?
Currently, you might be in any of the following situations in your life:
- You are unhappy and want love (Lowest Vibe)
- You are unhappy and do not want love
- You are unhappy and in love
- You are happy and want love
- You are happy and do not want love
- You are happy and in love (Highest Vibe)
To attract soul mate with higher vobrations, you need to understand the frequency of al the six statements above. As per my opinion, point number 1 is the lowest vibration and point number 6 is the highest vibration. The list moves from the lowest to the highest vibration. My sense is a lot of people are vibing from 1-3. Of course, you can be unhappy sometimes, or even most of the time, but if you are unhappy all the time in a relationship, don’t you think there’s a problem there?
Please note: The above is just to ensure you understand the context of frequencies. This is not to assign yourself in any position of number for any kind of judgment. Personally, I was at 5, then moved to 2, then 1, then 4, then 5. I now oscillate between 6, 3, and 4. It’s not necessary that you will go step-by-step in the above statements. Any of the above statements can apply to you being in/ not in a relationship.
Why being happy and in a relationship is necessary to attract soul mate with higher vibration
The statement – You are happy and in a relationship is extraordinarily powerful. I feel the Gods (whatever you wanna call the highest power) with the highest of vibrations are at this stage constantly. Wait, not sure if even they are happy constantly though. Flowers also do not pollinate at all times, and only cross-pollinate when the season comes (aka when they feel good, they connect, and are happy).
Do you think you are in higher vibrations? Which of the above strongly suggests that you are?
Read: What are spiritual vibrations?
Why do people leave when you raise your vibration
You finally made it. You’ve become that change, put in the work, moved forward in life, and raised your vibration. Wait! Suddenly, you feel you are not vibing with the people you used to hang out with earlier. You’re not on the same vibration and there is a mismatch of resonance. You’re feeling guilty about this.
You would want your people to rise higher and see this new beautiful reality. But they are not willing to change. You force it and then leave behind scars and bad blood. In short, you’re no longer friends with people after your shift.
The Universe will test your vibrations in two ways:
- Are you capable to say No?
- Are you capable to attract the New?
The first step in raising your vibrations is to say No
Let’s take a scenario as an example: The Universe will test you by repeating and revolving your same past patterns. This is just the manifestation of your immediate past. When the earth revolves around the Sun, it takes a complete turn. Even if you decide and commit to creating a new life pattern, the circle has to be complete before you take a new, greater revolution.
Are you attracting toxic relationships? When you reflect and work to raise your vibrations, your toxic friends will reach back to you. You will continue to attract toxic people for a while. This is the momentum of your immediate past pattern that will continue to show up. When you say No and reject to follow along this path of the past pattern, you will slowly rise and start a new revolution that will attract a higher vibration.
Once you become comfortable in rejecting your current pattern, the Universe will ask you if you are ready to level up to a new revolution pattern. The Universe will ask you –
Are you capable to attract the New?
Now that you have let go of your toxic patterns, this new revolution of vibrational patterns in your life will provide a lot of opportunities to work on yourself. During this period, you will notice you do not have any friends. You’re in a transition and you may meet people who are on a similar path. People who are working to raise their vibration and level up. Once you find a new revolutionary pattern that becomes stable, you will attract new friends and people who are vibrating at that level.
However, if you fail to reach a new stable revolutionary pattern – that becomes your frequency, you will fall back to your past pattern. You tried, but you failed. However, the good part will be that you will realize you have an opportunity to grow. You and the universe want you to grow. You will continue to attract situations in your life that will help you move on from your past patterns and allow you to grow to your new vibrational revolution.
Are you comfortable saying No to your current toxic patterns?
Finding high vibration beings and soul mates into your life
This world is feeling a massive awakening. The advent of the internet and its interconnectivity has led vibrational resonance towards a higher rise. However, while you are on your path towards higher consciousness, you’re craving for connections the resonate with your path too.
Imagine you suddenly wake up as a farmer. It’s sunrise and you move towards the huge farm. You’ve been nurturing the soil for some time and are expecting the crops to bloom from mother Earth soon. While on your daily routine walk, you feel a sense of calm and accomplishment. You see a small crop starting to slowly bloom from the soil. After walking for another 15 minutes, you notice another small crop trying to find its way on top of the soil. After 2 months, you notice the entire field blooming with small crops.
If you shift timelines, we are on a similar spiritual path. Like those one or two small crops that have bloomed, you’re one of the first few who have bloomed to higher consciousness and may find someone on a similar path miles away!
Here’s how you can find or attract conscious people in your life:
1. Desire people around you to win: This is something that not a lot of people consciously do! People around you are the closest vibration resonance and interaction you can have. When you create vibrations of success for the people around you, it is in turn helping you succeed. When people succeed, they raise their vibration. When they raise their vibration, you will have conscious beings with growth with you too!
2. Share your light: When you shine your light, you will attract light. Share your love freely. Share your learnings freely. Share love with freedom. Although this may be true, at the start of your journey, sharing your light in the dark world might be a dense feeling. However, move past the fear and share your light. Allow people to feel the love that you share. Be the Sun. And you’ll slowly find other beings that are sharing their light too.
3. Join high vibe communities: You might find your conscious being in a yoga class. Or in a comment on a spiritual community. Or you may find them meditating in nature. Go out and seek yourself. Stay amount people and seek yourself. You’ll attract beings that think and feel like you too!
Where do you find conscious beings?
How to Raise your Soul Mate’s or Your Partner’s Vibration:
Your partner is someone you spend the most time with. It is natural to desire your partner to experience the magical high vibrations energy. Your energy, frequency, and vibration is in constant interaction with the outer energies. The highest interaction of the frequency happens when you are in the vicinity of another being. When you are tuned to a higher vibration from your partner, you both will in a way, over time, find a stable resonance. There are two things that can happen:
- Your vibration has slightly come down and your partner’s vibration has slightly come up to find a common resonance.
- You stay in a stable high vibration and allow your partner space to rise with you in a stable vibration too.
For you and your partner’s best interest, it makes sense that either one of you rises high in a stable vibration and allows the other person to catch up. This will bring majestic moments of love, joy, and abundance to your relationship. In various circumstances, there is always be one partner that will slightly be at a higher vibration than the other.
Now that you do have a partner that is supporting you and your relationship’s growth, you would need to work individually and raise your vibration.
Here is what you can do on an individual basis to help your partner raise their vibration:
Act, don’t tell
Talk is cheap. If you find yourself asking your partner to rise or level up, maybe you need to hold a mirror to yourself. Stop telling your partner what to do. Stop asking your partner to eat the right food. Stop asking your partner to not watch television. Start becoming the person you want your partner to become. And you’ll notice your partner changing too.
Work on your character
This is your responsibility. Nobody can raise your vibration for you. Work on building your life and yourself. Work on building your morals. Your values. Your beliefs. Don’t just work on what appears good in the material world. Work in-depth on building your character.
Live your best life
A high vibration life is happy, joyful, creative, and fun! Start having more fun. Start dancing around. Become joyful and happy. You’’ throw those vibes at your partner and your will notice your partner jumping on the bed with you. Find time for activities that bring you joy and involve your partner.
Create good habits
Habits help you become a better person in the long term. Start building your habit of joining that yoga class. Stick to your schedule. Work on your life. Create that self-care routine. Your good habits will inspire your partner to work on their own life too. This will create synergy in your relationship.
State your intentions
When you live your life by setting intentions, keep your partner in the loop. Allow your partner to know your next business objective. Help your partner understand the impact you will create with your work. Tell your partner about what you are aspiring to achieve. Share everything you’re doing to make it real – positive affirmations, vision boards, meditation, appreciation for the money that you already have. And when the time to celebrate the abundance comes, the vibes will be extra special!
Remain kind to other people
When you talk to people with kindness, your partner will become a kind person too. When you show compassion to the external world other than your relationship, your partner will develop more compassion too. As a matter of fact, you can change your partner’s entire life with one random act of kindness and compassion
Work on healing your low vibration patterns
If you feel you and your partner are involved in some negativity, you need to realize that half of the negativity is also coming from you. Work on healing your core issues. Work on healing your toxic patterns. Work on your ego-based living and come back to the heart. Your partner will gravitate towards high vibrations too!
To conclude, your soul mate is always gravitating towards you. Love is always finding you. However, the test is if you are ready to respect love. To respect love, you need to respect yourself and your life. You would need to understand the value of love and your soul mate in your life. You won’t find love when you’re in toxicity. You will only find love when you are in your personal transformation journey. Another key point to note is your soul mate will come at a perfect divine time when you are no longer in need of anyone. And when the soul mate does arrive, it’s all about understanding your life patterns, understanding your bigger purpose within the community, and healing each other to rise quicker and higher in vibrations. All things considered, you will attract soul mate with higher vibrations.
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